PsychologySelf-DevelopmentStoriesSa pa anpeche m baw LòvLè lavi fèw kado, pa janm bliye pou w pran swen liGGuettchar CharlesApr 20, 2026 · 2 min read
StoriesPsychologyOver Coffee TalkThe non escape roadI wanted to write something everybody thinks aboutwhen they're extremely lost. Lost about life, about love. Lost about choice, about all those voices who remind them how pathetic they are. Enjoy the text!!GGuettchar CharlesMar 4, 2026 · 2 min read
Over Coffee TalkPsychologySelf-DevelopmentThe First Core Coins: Human NeedsThis post introduces the Human Needs, the first core coins in the Objective Personality System. Instead of defining personality by abilities, OPS focuses on what kinds of problems people feel responsible for solving. It explains two key trade-offs—Self vs Tribe and Organize vs Gather—and briefly introduces the Observer vs Decider distinction, which will become clearer in later posts.RRoyce Mar 4, 2026 · 3 min read
Over Coffee TalkStoriesSelf-DevelopmentGo where you will be recognized for your true worth...The world changes hearts. Money changes men, and men change for money. But what about our values, our desires, our ambitions, our future?GGuettchar CharlesFeb 10, 2026 · 3 min read
Self-DevelopmentPsychologyOver Coffee TalkWhat Does “Objective Typing” Actually Mean?In this article, I examine what OPS really means by “objective.” While the system tries to reduce subjectivity by relying on structured observation and agreement between multiple typers, it still depends on human interpretation rather than scientific measurement. So the real question isn’t whether it’s perfectly objective, but what kind of objectivity it actually achieves — and whether that distinction matters.RRoyce Feb 5, 2026 · 3 min read
Self-DevelopmentStoriesOver Coffee TalkPerception shown and feeling hiddenDear readers, we meet again for a new chapter on human perception. While so far we have focused only on the outward appearance of perception, in this new installment we will delve into the "unspoken" aspects of what is "said." Thanks to this new writing, you will be better able to understand people in all their forms and also gain insight into the hidden side of certain individuals, such as highly sensitive people who, for most of their lives, tend to conceal their true feelings and thoughts behind actions and words they believe others expect of them, in order to avoid drawing attention to themselves.GGuettchar CharlesJan 28, 2026 · 4 min read
StoriesPsychologySelf-DevelopmentWhat if its existence is a result of our relationship with each other as humans?My dear readers, if you've reached this chapter, it means that human perception intrigues you more than anything else, and you're dying to learn even more about the various approaches it can take. So, what if this time we delve into the relationship between humanity and that divine being, God?GGuettchar CharlesJan 21, 2026 · 3 min read
PsychologySelf-DevelopmentCognitive Intelligence & Emotional Intelligence Real intelligence is learning to use cognitive intelligence and emotional intelligence together to make better choices and handle real life.JJaël RémyJan 21, 2026 · 3 min read
Over Coffee TalkSelf-DevelopmentPsychologyGame Theory Of Relationships: the art of thinking ahead with people in mindIn relationships, your move is never just yours. What you do today shapes how the other person responds tomorrow. Game theory doesn’t make relationships cold; It makes them conscious.GGastien NestandJan 14, 2026 · 3 min read
Self-DevelopmentPsychologyCompromises in a coupleNow that we've explored the concepts of selfishness and happiness, let's consider their implications in a romantic relationship. What is its true form? Or rather, what should its meaning be for a relationship to be considered serious and lasting?GGuettchar CharlesJan 13, 2026 · 2 min read
Self-DevelopmentPsychologyHuman perception Can you truly claim to be there for others when you know that every action you take is determined by your own desire?GGuettchar CharlesJan 6, 2026 · 1 min read
PsychologySelf-DevelopmentOver Coffee TalkWhat Is the Objective Personality System (OPS)?This article introduces the Objective Personality System (OPS), a personality framework that attempts to reduce the limits of self-reporting by focusing on observable behavior.RRoyce Jan 3, 2026 · 3 min read
Over Coffee TalkPsychologySelf-DevelopmentFocusing: When Words Alone Aren't EnoughFocusing, developed by Eugene Gendlin, is an embodied practice of self-reflection that helps meaning emerge from the body rather than the thinking mind. At its core is the felt sense—the vague, bodily knowing that exists before clear thoughts or emotions. By staying with this “murky edge” in a nonjudgmental way, we allow clarity to form naturally instead of forcing answers. Unlike meditation or cognitive insight, Focusing invites us to listen to the whole of our experience—mind, body, and intuition together. As we slow down and attend to what the body is signaling, what once felt stuck can begin to shift. This process often leads to a felt shift: a subtle release that opens new perspectives and ways of moving forward. Focusing reminds us that our bodies often know long before we can explain—and that depth, clarity, and change emerge when we are willing to listen.CChristieDec 17, 2025 · 7 min read